{"id":177,"date":"2020-06-16T15:33:37","date_gmt":"2020-06-16T14:33:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/?p=177"},"modified":"2020-06-16T15:33:37","modified_gmt":"2020-06-16T14:33:37","slug":"embracing-a-new-work-life-balance-during-lockdown","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/2020\/06\/16\/embracing-a-new-work-life-balance-during-lockdown\/","title":{"rendered":"Embracing a new work-life balance during lockdown"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_178\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-178\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"600\" class=\"size-full wp-image-178\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/files\/2020\/06\/IMG_20200531_152306.jpg\" alt=\"Dr Carol Sheppard and her family\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-178\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em>Dr Carol Sheppard and her family<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Dr Carol Sheppard explains how lockdown has reinvigorated her research by providing a much-needed opportunity for planning and reflection.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In 2015 my husband and I were some of the first people in the country to take shared parental leave, an arrangement we both highly advocate. I had a baby (girl), published a first author paper and learnt to drive, all in the space of a year. It was a challenging year with a steep learning curve but I was immensely proud of all of my achievements. No-one patted me on the back more than myself!<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Since then I have moved university, changed field and had another baby (a boy). We have the same arrangement of shared parental leave but this time it was different. I did not have the same knowledge base in this field, nor the network of collaborators and most importantly I did not have a manuscript in preparation. Instead, in my first few months of maternity leave when I was crippled by sleep deprivation and learning to survive with &#8216;baby brain&#8217; (a phenomenon I had previously dismissed) several papers were published that made significant advances in my area. When I returned to part-time work I was keen to get back into the lab and prove my worth. So amongst all the lactating I quickly devised a new plan and set of experiments. Nothing worked.<\/p>\n<p>I persevered as every good post-doc does but I was left feeling dejected, lost and tired, so so tired. Then lockdown happened and it&#8217;s been wonderful! For our family of four, we have cherished this unique time together and the much-needed extra hour in bed. We have remained on shared parental leave, with my husband and I working four hours each per day whilst the other feeds the children seemingly endless snacks and navigates the assault course of Lego. It&#8217;s been hectic and noisy and messy (do crumbs breed?) but it works. We have been able to teach our four-year-old to ride her bike without stabilisers, write full words, understand the concept of evolution and the wonders of the naked mole-rat. Meanwhile our (now) 11 month old has cut his first teeth, likes to clap his podgy hands without actually making any sound and is finally crawling and standing. When I am not playing and breastfeeding (delighted the pump has been temporarily retired) I am working. As a lab-based scientist, I didn\u2019t ever really consider working from home for more than a few half-hearted hours in the evening. During these last few months, I have had the opportunity to think, read, think some more and plan. I do like a good plan. It has been an immensely valuable time.<\/p>\n<p>Now, from the scraps of my lab notebook I have pieced together a manuscript in preparation (albeit with a lot of lab work left to do). I needed this time and would not hesitate to take a break from the bench again. I have now happily returned to the lab, reinvigorated and excited to be putting my revered plan into action. I am also very much appreciating the ability to hold an uninterrupted conversation. What&#8217;s more, we now know when the school holidays roll around we will not simply \u2018manage\u2019 childcare, we will relish the time with our young family and the opportunity to philosophise from home.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dr Carol Sheppard is a Research Associate in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.imperial.ac.uk\/barclay-lab\/people\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Barclay Lab<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dr Carol Sheppard explains how lockdown has reinvigorated her research by providing a much-needed opportunity for planning and reflection. In 2015 my husband and I were some of the first people in the country to take shared parental leave, an arrangement we both highly advocate. I had a baby (girl), published a first author paper [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1382,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[278180,81],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-177","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-early-career-researchers","category-research"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/177","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1382"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=177"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/177\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":179,"href":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/177\/revisions\/179"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=177"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=177"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs-staging.imperial.ac.uk\/doid-staff\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=177"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}